Showing posts with label changing pad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label changing pad. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

getting ready for baby: diaper bag must haves for older babies

if you haven't read the blog on what to pack for a newborn diaper bag, you may want to go back and read it. in this new segment we're doing on "getting ready for baby," let me just emphasize, we're not experts, just moms with a lot of kids. this is what has worked for us. it's always great to talk to those who have gone through things before you but some things you'll have to discover for yourself.

that being said, here's what you will probably need in a diaper bag for an older baby/toddler:

diaper changing needs:

diapers - now that your baby is older, you may find that some of the cheaper diapers work just as well as the more expensive. i've used just about every brand. my personal favorites are huggies simply because the elastic at the back of the diaper tends to keep poopies contained. other than that, i'm pretty impartial. just make sure you have them on hand and if your baby's poopies are escaping the diaper, try a different brand or jump a size up in the diapers. that usually solves most leaking.

wipes - bigger babies = bigger poopies. pack a big pack of wipes. you can never have too many of these and they also work wonders for cleaning messy hands and faces.

disposable diaper bags - just like for you newborns, you are not always in a place where a garbage can is convenient. if you are in some places, like your pediatrician's office, they may specifically ask you to take all poopy diapers outside. no building wants a poopy sitting in their trash can. so, these bags enable you to put all stinkies into a bag and hold onto them without passing out until you can get to an outdoor garbage can. trust me, it's important.

changing pad - it doesn't matter how big your child is, public bathrooms are never as clean as you would like. it's always better to have somewhere to place your baby that comes from your home and is as clean as you can make it.

disposable changing pads - again, this is a luxury but it's nice to throw away all things involving a poopy diaper.
potty training needs:

toilet seat covers - these aren't a necessity but they are very handy. public toilets are not something you want to sit your toddler onto and sometimes you don't have time to cover their seat with toilet paper if seat covers aren't available.

antibacterial spray - this is a great thing to carry around for a multitude of reasons. in bathrooms, you can quickly clean a toilet seat with antibacterial cleaner and a papertowel. just carry a well-labeled travel sized bottle and you can make any surface clean. this also works for restaurant tables if your kids insist on eating directly from the table.

post-its - i know, you're probably scratching your head with this one but one of my friends was the one that brought me this great idea. many bathrooms have the automatic flushing toilets. these can freak little kids out, especially if they are learning to potty train. a quick solution to this is to cover up the sensor with a post it. the sensor can't tell that a little one has come and gone. once you take the post-it away, the toilet should flush. works like a charm.

eating needs:

if you are still nursing or bottle feeding, you'll still need all the basics from the newborn essentials diaper bag. as your baby grow, you'll need to bring along some extra gear to help with eating out and about.

bibsters: disposable bibs. need i say more? really, who wants to carry home a cloth bib full of baby food and then have to wash it to try to get the stains out. if you can avoid it, help yourself out and carry these around.

disposable place mats: if you ever happen to eat at chick-fil-a, that place is spectacular in their care for children and they actually provide these for free. if you're not getting your chicken on, you'll want to have these with you. as hard as you may try, your baby will end up eating off the table. have you seen how the staff at most restaurants "cleans" the tables between customers. i'm not sure where their white, wet towels have been and how many tables they have cleaned but i'm guessing tables in most restaurants aren't as cleanly as you might like for your baby. these adhesive mats are perfect for baby to eat from and they can be left in the trash on the way out. genius.

snacks and/or food: there are a ton of baby snacks out there. take some along on trips you take. when all else fails to entertain your baby, food will usually work. don't forget a spoon or some type of utensil if you're feeding your child baby food. snack cups that prevent spills are also handy on longer outings and can keep your baby happy and busy for extended periods of time. it's also important to remember a sippy cup for older children. as much as they might want to drink from cups with straws like everyone else, it takes them a while to master the "hold the cup down" principle. sippy cups are best if you want to avoid a really wet baby.

miscellaneous needs:

medicine - if you have a baby that is teething, bringing along some oragel is always a smart decision. anything that can calm a crying baby is a handy item to carry.

hand sanitizer - don't leave home without it. when your walking child manages to find a piece of gum off the ground while you're getting the shopping cart ready, you'll be happy you have it.

kleenex - snotty noses come out of no where. it's always better to be safe than sorry.

pacifier - if you're a pacifier user, have a few on hand. target has become my land of lost pacifiers as my baby always ended up tossing his somewhere amid the aisles. having an extra on hand can help in just about every circumstance.

did we forget anything? if we did, please let us know. we mommies have to stick together and any tips we can share will only help those around us. if you have a great idea, help us pass it on.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

getting ready for baby: diaper bag must-haves - newborns

if there is one thing that you are going to get a ton of when you are pregnant with your first or your fifth baby, it's advice. more than any repeat gift at a baby shower, people will be itching to bestow upon you their "expertise" in all baby matters. that being said, let me assure you, i'm no expert. i have had four babies so that does afford me some license to give my opinion and share what i know but i am not the end all when it comes to baby gear. every baby is different and every mommy is just as diverse. things that work for me won't work for others. still, as i was getting ready to meet my firstborn and i walked into the vast expanse of babies-r-us, i wish i had known what to look for...and what was a complete waste of my money. so, here's the first in our new series, "getting ready for baby." i hope it helps you feel a little more prepared and less lost in the experience of motherhood.

diaper bags alter tremendously throughout the first year of your baby's life. first of all, you will need one. you can use a backpack, buy a really expensive bag that makes you feel more stylish, or throw everything in a reusable grocery bag. regardless of what you choose, you'll need something. you'll also be stuck with it for a while so you might as well find something you will be able to look at for the next two years.

once you've purchased your bag of choice (or pulled something from the back of your closet), you'll need these items first. you can have this diaper bag filled before baby even arrives and i highly recommend being prepared. as tired as you are at the end of your pregnancy, you'll be even more so when baby arrives so get as much done as you can before your sweet one comes.

newborn needs:

diapers - any brand will do. i have to say, though, i'm more of a diaper snob for newborns. their skin is so sensitive and i like the diapers that are the softest and don't rub my baby wrong.




wipes
- buy these suckers in bulk. you'll go through them a lot faster than you can say "poopy diaper." the initial baby poop is really sticky an thick and you'll need a lot of wipes to do the job well. while the little cute travel wipe dispensers are nice, they will be empty in a day and need to be refilled. save yourself the trouble and just put in a full pack of wipes.







plastic diaper bags - these are for smelly diaper disposal and they are a life-saver. your baby will poop pretty much everywhere you take him or her. these little bags are usually scented with a fresh baby powder scent and are the perfect size to put your smelly diaper into before disposing of it. it's also a lot less messy to put every wipe and smelly bit into one little location. you may not think it's a big deal now but, trust me, you'll thank me later.




changing pad
- most diaper bags come with one of these. if it doesn't, go out and get yourself something to change your baby on. there is nothing more disturbing than laying your brand new, perfect baby onto a changing table in a public bathroom or onto the floor at a friend's house. not only will this protect the baby, it will also protect the floor. babies have an amazing ability to pee and poop as soon as you take their diapers off. just as you're lifting your sweet one's little legs up to wipe their bottom, they will explode and you'll end up spending the rest of your day out shopping in poop. as much as you try to avoid it, this too will probably happen to you. if you're going to be out and about for a day, you may want to stick an extra change of clothes in your car, just in case.



disposable changing sheet - these are a convenience but are not a necessity. how much easier is it to throw something soiled away, though, instead of taking it home to be washed?




feeding needs
- these will be different depending on whether you are nursing or bottle feeding.

  • for bottle feeding: you'll need water bottles to fill up your baby bottles, clean bottles, and formula. i'm a big fan of the little formula dispensers. you can measure out what you need for one feeding and put that amount in each section of the dispenser and then make your bottle easily and quickly. there is nothing that drives your blood pressure up more as a new mom than a baby who is hungry and you're not able to move fast enough to get him or her fed.



  • for breast feeding: a blanket or some breast feeding cover to make nursing a little more comfortable at the start. let me just throw something out here as well. nursing is tough and it takes a lot of practice. you would think that something so natural would be really easy to pick up. let me just dispel that myth. it's hard to get the hang of. why do you think there are people out there whose entire job is just to help people be successful? if it was so easy, would we need paid helpers? give yourself some grace and some time. also, be prepared. if you really want to breast feed, buy some things to make it easier for yourself. i'm not suggesting a cover because i think we need to be embarrassed about breast feeding. i'm just letting you know, it's easier when you can focus on your baby and getting him or her latched on and not worry about who might be seeing your huge, engorged boob hanging out. you'll also want a towel or a burp cloth of some sort. babies are messy as they are learning how to latch on and at the beginning, your milk can get all over the place. bring yourself a towel of some sort. you'll want to dry off and you'll probably need it for your baby too. lastly, bring some extra nursing pads. they can get filled up quickly and they can stink (think sour milk mixed with sweat...not pretty). you don't want to leak onto your shirt or smell. you'll also want some lanolin cream for your dried, cracked and sometimes bleeding nipples. i know that's graphic but it's also the truth. lanolin helps and it's safe for your baby. pack some...you won't regret it.




change of clothes - you'll want this, believe me. baby poopies can be explosions. i think my record with my kids was one that went all the way up to his ear and down into his shoes. really. it happens. be prepared. always have extra clothes for your newborn packed in the diaper bag. you won't be sorry. in case of explosion, use the disposable diaper bags to pack up poopy clothes to take home.



pacifiers - some people don't do pacifiers. we didn't with our first child because we were afraid he wouldn't nurse. the thing is, my boobs became his pacifier. for the second, third and fourth born, we used them. we loved them. if you are going to use a pacifier, be patient with these too at the beginning. buy the smallest ones according to the size on the packaging and keep working with your newborn to get them into their mouths. they have to learn how to hold onto them. once they do, you'll have something to soothe your baby when you just can't get to their milk fast enough. always pack several pacifiers in your diaper bag. they disappear about as often as baby socks do.



burp cloths - maybe you'll be blessed with a baby that never spits up. i never was. my kids spit up from birth through age one. i spelled like vomit for four complete years. regardless of how bad your child spits up, you'll want a burp cloth. there is always something to clean up and these little pieces of cloth might just save your outfit for the day. what the heck, pack two.




an extra blanket
- these fall on the floor often. you may not want to put one around your baby after it's been on the floor of a public bathroom...or any floor for that matter. an extra one is always handy. just fyi...you probably won't need to buy any blankets for yourself, ever. people love to give blankets as a gift. you'll most likely end up with more than you can use. wait until you're done receiving gifts before you buy any for yourself.





medicine - for a newborn, bring the little gas drops. their little gassy tummies can make them miserable. for a day out and about, you'll be happy you have these.





toys - you won't need these for the first couple of weeks but soon you'll be happy you have something for your baby to play with or look at. you don't need much but you'll be surprised how something simple can keep their attention just long enough for you to check out at the grocery store.




i'm sure there are tons of other ideas out there. this is a pretty basic list to get things rolling without breaking the bank. if you have any other bits of wisdom, feel free to share here, where mommies can take it or leave it. let's all help one another navigate this crazy journey called motherhood and enjoy the ride.